Hiring a nanny should rest on a simple question of need. But, in our social media-infused world where online shaming is common, too many parents—especially moms—worry about being judged for getting help.

But times have changed. While it once “took a village” to raise a child and grandparents played a more central role in caring for kids, moms and dads are more on their own these days. And life is more demanding and hectic than ever, even for stay-at-home parents.

You’ve got to do what’s best for your family and look past judgments from internet know-it-alls. Before you abandon your Google search for “nanny services near me”, read about a few ways hiring a nanny can benefit your family.

1: A nanny can help you spend more quality time with your kids.

It seems counterintuitive, right? Most people think a nanny is supposed to assume the role of mom or dad and whisk kids off for the day, but that’s not really an accurate picture. A nanny can relieve you of kid-watching duty for a while so you can get tasks like grocery shopping and errands done on your own. Or they can sometimes act as your personal assistant and help take care of these tasks for you. When these things are out of the way you’re freed up to spend quality time with your kids without distractions.

2: A nanny can help you get your own needs met.

They say you can’t pour from an empty cup, yet too many parents suffer from burnout, and too many moms suffer with postpartum depression. Raising a family and caring for yourself is a balancing act. And it’s even harder if you’re a full-time working mom or dad. The truth is that you can’t be fully present for your family if your own needs are neglected or you’re suffering.

Hiring help isn’t a selfish act. In fact, your wish to be there, really be there, for your family is an act of love. A nanny can give you the relief you need to recharge your batteries. In the end you’ll be more empowered to handle the daily challenges of parenting with a cool head and an open heart.

As one mom said in a heartfelt essay about her struggles with postpartum depression, “I am not exaggerating when I say having her [nanny] in the house nearly every day for four years made me a better mom. Knowing she was there to share her big heart with me and all three of my girls helped chase away some of my anxiety and sadness.”

3: A nanny can provide companionship.

A nanny is first and foremost your employee, but they can also be a great companion. Being a stay-at-home parent can be very isolating, especially if you’re not involved in parent groups or can’t venture out much.

The companionship a great nanny can provide is priceless. She’ll never take your place as mom, but as part of your household she can be a valued companion for you and your kids.

Get Expert Help Hiring a Nanny

Hiring a nanny is an involved, complex process. You want the best for your family and Staffing at Tiffanie’s has the experience and connections to help you find a qualified, compassionate nanny.

We use a rigorous screening process to carefully select qualified candidates, and we nurture you through the entire process of screening, interviewing, and hiring your perfect candidate—it’s how we’ve earned a reputation as one of the most trusted nanny agencies in the country.

Learn more about our process, then contact our domestic staffing agency at 866-484-5550 to find a nanny.